Don't Be Afraid to Let Go

Sometimes it feels like you'll never get over the heartbreak and pain.

At least that's how it seems sometimes. You give your all to someone thinking that they are doing the same. Only to find out they don't value you as much as you thought they did. And after the breakup you go back and realize there were a lot of things wrong with your relationship that you chose to overlook or deny. You knew in your heart this isn't the way it's suppose to be. But you still press on in hopes things will change or get better. When the fact of the matter is you can't make him be what you want him to be. So why hold on? Why try?There's nothing wrong with believing in a man. But when you put your whole being into someone you know isn't gonna change then that's when the problem occurs.

We continue to open ourselves to men who are not deserving and we let that one man cloud our judgement about men in general. At some point we have to take responsibility for our own actions. That man you were with showed you who he was a long time ago yet you chose to ignore it in hopes he would "change". We've all done it, I've done it. We worry about him leaving us and finding someone else and giving her everything we ever wanted. When we should be understanding that we are worth more than "waiting for him to come around". It comes a point where we have to cut our loses and move on. Realize whatever he has that you like, God will giveyou a man 20x better. But as long as you hold on to the mess, you will never get what God has for you.

Don't let that one heartbreak rob you of your happiness.

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